Figured I should explain, since I’ve barely written anything lately. I’ve been on small rations, computer-wise, for the last few weeks. My laptop (currently an enormous luggable Acer) has been doing downhill for about five months – the F5 key went, hell for web development, then the R key got shaky, both my shift keys [...]
The Flaws Inherent in the Exhibition of Inferiority
A lot of self-help and personal advancement books talk about the utility of showing vulnerability in public. Hiding your flaws is counterproductive, especially for those of us whose business it is to be human above all else. There’s a problem with doing this intentionally, however, because it often comes off as making a claim to an [...]
The Road to Financial Agility: Step One, Ignore Your Debt
I’m considering ordering a new laptop, because the one I currently work from is a broken old POS (I’ve had it for two years) which has had the keyboard replaced, the screen casing is broken, and it moves about as fast after a complete system reinstall as my previous laptop did having been used for [...]
Confronting the Absense of Evidence
Imagine you get asked a very simple question. So you research. You dig in, follow the rabbit hole, and find a few dozen answers the exact question, plus a few more scenarios where the simple question may mean entirely different things based on external circumstances. But here’s the problem; it’s all wrong. It’s so simple, [...]
The Trouble with a Lack of Deadlines
Hark, A meme!
Should your blog be wearing a tie?
People treat you different when you wear a tie. For five years I wore khakis and a button-down shirt, open at the collar, with no tie. I got along with everyone, which was my job, and was mistaken for management wherever I went because I learned early on to walk with intention and assess everything [...]
How To Confront High Standards
How To Ruin A Compliment
Actually, this is more about ruining the very simple phrase “You’re Welcome.” It’s easier than you think. Instead of expressing a genuine reciprocation of the understanding that you’ve done something nice for someone, dismiss the entire event in as few words as possible. Water under the bridge, some say. No problem. I hate hearing someone [...]
Why I’ve been blogging less lately (and why you need a break too!)
Note: In a completely serendipitous case of blog-meets-blog, Mark Dykeman at Broadcasting Brain just dropped a post asking “Why do you blog if not for money?” as this was being published. It’s a good question to ask, if you’re considering a change of pace or purpose. I don’t talk about why, here – but Mark [...]


